"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is it normal for a mistress to term the wife as a "witch"?

MatureDJ

MatureDJ

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slatest.slate.com/posts/2012/06/18/rielle_hunter_what_really_happened_john_edwards_mistress_pens_tell_all_book_.html

It seems to me that this is just a case of heat of the moment competitive disgust in not being able to be the official Mrs. to the Alpha.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Its not only normal, its actually the rule and the same things happen when a man is in deep contact with his mom and the wife cant stand it( or the opposite not sure).
 
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Yes. Even most of your sluttiest mistresses don't really like being the other woman for that long. Eventually they want to be the only one. They obviously can't resent YOU because you're the one they want, they can only start resenting their obstacles.

That's why, if you're married, it's easier to pay for play. Sleazier but easier.
 
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