"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is it just me . . .

AFK Protector

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I've been having mood swings lately.

Sometimes I feel like I want to go back to the AFK Protector I was being AFC and nice to everyone. Being DJ takes so much effort but sometimes I just want to quit.

Other times I'm disgusted at AFCs and be the best DJ I can be. I feel like I can take on the world and nothing can stop me.

Anyone else feel like this?

It's really annoying and I was wondering if it was depression or some disorder.
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I will elaborate on this more, because it's getting late.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I've felt like that before. With the good comes the bad. You just have to stick through it though and you'll sit there going "why did I want to be AFC again?"
 

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I think I'm still associating DJ with "jerk." which is wrong.

I'm also associating "gentleman" with "AFC." which is also wrong.

I think I'm feeling a bit more righteous, so I'm leaning towards AFC for the moment....damn this is like the 4th time this has happened.

Thanks for your input eternal.
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
I think I'm still associating DJ with "jerk." which is wrong.

I'm also associating "gentleman" with "AFC." which is also wrong.

I think I'm feeling a bit more righteous, so I'm leaning towards AFC for the moment....damn this is like the 4th time this has happened.

Thanks for your input eternal.
That's the problem. The only thing "DJ" should be associated with is "making yourself the best you can be," not an attitude. You can still be a gentleman and be DJ.

4th time? When you hit triple digits, let me welcome you to the club. ;)
 

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Just be nice to everybody, the more people that like you, the more girls that like you. Just don't let other people control you, show yourself as a strong person.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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