"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is it just me . . .

AFK Protector

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I've been having mood swings lately.

Sometimes I feel like I want to go back to the AFK Protector I was being AFC and nice to everyone. Being DJ takes so much effort but sometimes I just want to quit.

Other times I'm disgusted at AFCs and be the best DJ I can be. I feel like I can take on the world and nothing can stop me.

Anyone else feel like this?

It's really annoying and I was wondering if it was depression or some disorder.
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I will elaborate on this more, because it's getting late.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've felt like that before. With the good comes the bad. You just have to stick through it though and you'll sit there going "why did I want to be AFC again?"
 

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I think I'm still associating DJ with "jerk." which is wrong.

I'm also associating "gentleman" with "AFC." which is also wrong.

I think I'm feeling a bit more righteous, so I'm leaning towards AFC for the moment....damn this is like the 4th time this has happened.

Thanks for your input eternal.
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
I think I'm still associating DJ with "jerk." which is wrong.

I'm also associating "gentleman" with "AFC." which is also wrong.

I think I'm feeling a bit more righteous, so I'm leaning towards AFC for the moment....damn this is like the 4th time this has happened.

Thanks for your input eternal.
That's the problem. The only thing "DJ" should be associated with is "making yourself the best you can be," not an attitude. You can still be a gentleman and be DJ.

4th time? When you hit triple digits, let me welcome you to the club. ;)
 

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Just be nice to everybody, the more people that like you, the more girls that like you. Just don't let other people control you, show yourself as a strong person.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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