"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is it just me or..

King Turi

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..are club/pub chicks the absolute low as far as decent girls go?

I've seen so many chicks go out to places I go to, and they hook up with random dudes, always try getting with a different guy each time it seems, and even the chicks who have boyfriends are hooking up with other guys on their "girls night out"... I have basically decided if my girl ever pulls the girls night out crap on me, she's gonna get kicked to the curb. (I'm single, just saying).

The chicks I thought were attractive when I first started going to these places are now people I wouldn't even consider and would probably be repulsed by if they tried busting a move on me, it's just wrong to know they've had so much ****.
Like there's absolutely no WAY they could not have a sexual disease.

I've been with a girl who I basically stole from her boyfriend (she broke up with him because of me), then she left me, to get back with him, and she comes out every now and then to places I go (there's not much variety where I live) and she hooks up with a new guy each time, even though she has a man.
It's disgusting, because when she's sober, she's a really nice person.

What has happened in recent years which has sparked such behaviour?

I realize the old days of getting married at 21 and being together until the day you die is over, but something has really screwed up as far as society goes, and I'm not entirely sure what it is.
I'm only 21, I'm not some old guy by the way, so maybe I'm just naive.

Where would one have to go in order to meet a decent girl, as in, someone who doesn't cheat on you the instant she goes out without you?

Because it looks like that's all chicks go out to do and it's kinda disturbing since I actually do want a decent girl.
It's like I might as well forget about even getting into a relationship because there's simply no point, they all end miserably and you WILL be cheated on.

Spinning plates is a decent method of coming back from the depths of a break-up, but it doesn't fix whatever has screwed over society.

Anybody know what happened?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IamtheAlphamale

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Really you think the girls night out thing is just an excuse to get some ass? I've been thinking pretty similarly to this lately. Anyone else?
 

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I dont think the majority of women go out to clubs just to find men

they go out to get attention and have fun
 

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Usually its 1 or 2 chicks that want some ass that initiate the girls night out, and the rest go for fun.

Whether or not they get laid is a different story.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nexxus

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lol I agree, the girls I've seen who go out to dance bars and clubs just seem real slutty and easy...
 

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No. It's a huge myth that the world is divided into party girls who go to clubs, and quality relationship material outside of them. The general "quality" of the entire female population has gone down recently, that kind of behaviour is seen as more normal, and their men are not assertive, so they tolerate bad behaviour.

I thought the same way as you in high school. My eyes were opened when I went to a party, and all the "nice" girls were drunk and making out with the jocks. Going out is an excuse for them to let their hair down.

The majority of young women do go to clubs these days. Some of them aren't acting like slvts. Some are. Then back in the daytime, the majority of these party girls act a lot more tame. Same women, acting different in different situations.

But you are half right, party girls like this aren't relationship material. Very few women these days are relationship material. But you can find them anywhere.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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