"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is it just me or..

King Turi

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..are club/pub chicks the absolute low as far as decent girls go?

I've seen so many chicks go out to places I go to, and they hook up with random dudes, always try getting with a different guy each time it seems, and even the chicks who have boyfriends are hooking up with other guys on their "girls night out"... I have basically decided if my girl ever pulls the girls night out crap on me, she's gonna get kicked to the curb. (I'm single, just saying).

The chicks I thought were attractive when I first started going to these places are now people I wouldn't even consider and would probably be repulsed by if they tried busting a move on me, it's just wrong to know they've had so much ****.
Like there's absolutely no WAY they could not have a sexual disease.

I've been with a girl who I basically stole from her boyfriend (she broke up with him because of me), then she left me, to get back with him, and she comes out every now and then to places I go (there's not much variety where I live) and she hooks up with a new guy each time, even though she has a man.
It's disgusting, because when she's sober, she's a really nice person.

What has happened in recent years which has sparked such behaviour?

I realize the old days of getting married at 21 and being together until the day you die is over, but something has really screwed up as far as society goes, and I'm not entirely sure what it is.
I'm only 21, I'm not some old guy by the way, so maybe I'm just naive.

Where would one have to go in order to meet a decent girl, as in, someone who doesn't cheat on you the instant she goes out without you?

Because it looks like that's all chicks go out to do and it's kinda disturbing since I actually do want a decent girl.
It's like I might as well forget about even getting into a relationship because there's simply no point, they all end miserably and you WILL be cheated on.

Spinning plates is a decent method of coming back from the depths of a break-up, but it doesn't fix whatever has screwed over society.

Anybody know what happened?
 

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IamtheAlphamale

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Really you think the girls night out thing is just an excuse to get some ass? I've been thinking pretty similarly to this lately. Anyone else?
 

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I dont think the majority of women go out to clubs just to find men

they go out to get attention and have fun
 

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Usually its 1 or 2 chicks that want some ass that initiate the girls night out, and the rest go for fun.

Whether or not they get laid is a different story.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol I agree, the girls I've seen who go out to dance bars and clubs just seem real slutty and easy...
 

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No. It's a huge myth that the world is divided into party girls who go to clubs, and quality relationship material outside of them. The general "quality" of the entire female population has gone down recently, that kind of behaviour is seen as more normal, and their men are not assertive, so they tolerate bad behaviour.

I thought the same way as you in high school. My eyes were opened when I went to a party, and all the "nice" girls were drunk and making out with the jocks. Going out is an excuse for them to let their hair down.

The majority of young women do go to clubs these days. Some of them aren't acting like slvts. Some are. Then back in the daytime, the majority of these party girls act a lot more tame. Same women, acting different in different situations.

But you are half right, party girls like this aren't relationship material. Very few women these days are relationship material. But you can find them anywhere.
 
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