"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is it just me or do girls hate getting a photo?

Cheatz

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Just a ponder of this topic.

No, I havn't tried taking a pic of a chick at all recently. But the thought occured to my mind when I was looking through my photo album. It appears girls have followed some type of camera trend and the only photos I have of chicks is them having their hand over the lens.

It's not really a big issue here but why is it do they dislike having their picture taken at a appropriate time. Yet they love to have pictures of me at any given moment :confused: .

Someone please tell me I'm not the only here that suffers from this. You ask for a innocent pic to have on your phone or whatever and they go ape sh!t. When you ask for a photo and they say no, do you usually persuade and joke around until you get it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LikRetsam

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insecurity?
 

Evil-Rom

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Don't force it, a lot of girls don't like getting their pictures taken when they aren't ready. Insecure maybe, like LikRetsam said.

Although if she's interested enough, she'll let you. ;)
 

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Girls like getting their picture taken, you just have to do it quick. They hate it when you make them smile forever and carry out the time it takes to take the picture, you know what i mean. They feel stupid, just do it quick or whatever and don't make it such a big deal. But don't do it candid. They will probably be mad at you. So just don't make it a big deal and they will most likely be cool with it, unless like they said before, they are insecure.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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