"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is it just me or do girls hate getting a photo?

Cheatz

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Just a ponder of this topic.

No, I havn't tried taking a pic of a chick at all recently. But the thought occured to my mind when I was looking through my photo album. It appears girls have followed some type of camera trend and the only photos I have of chicks is them having their hand over the lens.

It's not really a big issue here but why is it do they dislike having their picture taken at a appropriate time. Yet they love to have pictures of me at any given moment :confused: .

Someone please tell me I'm not the only here that suffers from this. You ask for a innocent pic to have on your phone or whatever and they go ape sh!t. When you ask for a photo and they say no, do you usually persuade and joke around until you get it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LikRetsam

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insecurity?
 

Evil-Rom

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Don't force it, a lot of girls don't like getting their pictures taken when they aren't ready. Insecure maybe, like LikRetsam said.

Although if she's interested enough, she'll let you. ;)
 

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Girls like getting their picture taken, you just have to do it quick. They hate it when you make them smile forever and carry out the time it takes to take the picture, you know what i mean. They feel stupid, just do it quick or whatever and don't make it such a big deal. But don't do it candid. They will probably be mad at you. So just don't make it a big deal and they will most likely be cool with it, unless like they said before, they are insecure.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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