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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is it just me or do girls hate getting a photo?

Cheatz

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Just a ponder of this topic.

No, I havn't tried taking a pic of a chick at all recently. But the thought occured to my mind when I was looking through my photo album. It appears girls have followed some type of camera trend and the only photos I have of chicks is them having their hand over the lens.

It's not really a big issue here but why is it do they dislike having their picture taken at a appropriate time. Yet they love to have pictures of me at any given moment :confused: .

Someone please tell me I'm not the only here that suffers from this. You ask for a innocent pic to have on your phone or whatever and they go ape sh!t. When you ask for a photo and they say no, do you usually persuade and joke around until you get it?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LikRetsam

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insecurity?
 

Evil-Rom

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Don't force it, a lot of girls don't like getting their pictures taken when they aren't ready. Insecure maybe, like LikRetsam said.

Although if she's interested enough, she'll let you. ;)
 

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Girls like getting their picture taken, you just have to do it quick. They hate it when you make them smile forever and carry out the time it takes to take the picture, you know what i mean. They feel stupid, just do it quick or whatever and don't make it such a big deal. But don't do it candid. They will probably be mad at you. So just don't make it a big deal and they will most likely be cool with it, unless like they said before, they are insecure.
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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