Is it just me or are nowadays many woman not ltr material?

[OngBak]

Did it got worse or better over time? I have met a decent amount, but so far almost all woman I encountered had some sort of redflags. Is it just me or are there genuinely not many good ones around anymore? I immediately filter those woman with major redflags out.

 

[sevbucmash]

It depends on what race you dating. Everybody got touched one way or another by this multicultural bs elites are pushing onto us. Thing has gotten progressively worst since 2010. But some races got touched much less.

Least touched is the jewish race. So date some jews and report back.

 

[OngBak]

It depends on what race you dating. Everybody got touched one way or another by this multicultural bs elites are pushing onto us. Thing has gotten progressively worst since 2010. But some races got touched much less.

Least touched is the jewish race. So date some jews and report back.

Jews? With all the hatred they receive i dont believe, it would be much different with them. There is actually a study, about it that the circumstance around war and hate, leads to more promiscuous behavior than usual. I have dated many from different cultures. Im an international student so i have exposure to different type of cultures from various countries. So far, Europeans and north africians seemed very outgoing, but everything else a disaster

 

[sevbucmash]

With all the hatred they receive i dont believe, it would be much different with them

Ayyy. Why. Bye.

Cry me a river!

Anyway, worst would be white people. White Europeans, white Americans. Birth rate is historic low. Bellow 1 child per family, closer to 0.6. Plus people in power, jews, actively import immigrants, which have much higher birth rates, closer to 2 to 5. Not far behind white people are slavs, birth rate is also bellow 1. Population replacement is happening, or cultural genocide. Also, erosion of family values due to media brainwashing, which guess what, is also controlled by jews.

Thus, jews have the best odds, with their khazar Kiev-Volga-Don-Derbent roots and fake claim of semetic relationship. They are turkic people, which happen to control the most powerful financial institutions and the media, and you can thank them for your inability to find relationship material.

I don't know man, survive, procreate, lower your standards. Go slavic, chances will be a bit a tiny bit higher.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Jews? With all the hatred they receive i dont believe, it would be much different with them. There is actually a study, about it that the circumstance around war and hate, leads to more promiscuous behavior than usual. I have dated many from different cultures. Im an international student so i have exposure to different type of cultures from various countries. So far, Europeans and north africians seemed very outgoing, but everything else a disaster

lmfao

 

[OngBak]

lmfao

Its actually true though, hard to believe for some

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

Its actually true though, hard to believe for some

i didn't notice the previous reply mentioned jews at the end so your comment seemingly came out of left field. still funny though i encourage jews to be brought up in any discussion.

 

[Dash Riprock]

OP, I'm a senior member of the board and have dated in every decade going back to the 80s. I'm not going to preach and reminisce about the "old times" but up until about 15 years ago, it was easy to meet women organically. Sure there was online dating, and it was a pain in the a$s then too, but it was no where near the level of bulls*it guys have to deal with now. Not even close. People actually tried in relationships and women weren't nearly as delusional, low quality, and b*tchy as they are now.

So to answer your question OP, yes, it's much, much tougher now to date women and almost impossible to find one worth investing in.

My advice: Focus on YOU and build the best life you can, and do it solo. Focus on health, wealth, education, social circle, hobbies, and interests. Invest your money -- this is huge. Go as far as you can with what you've got. A woman will only slow you down and become your #1 critic--seriously. Women can be a fun little side dish on your plate of food in life but NEVER, EVER make them the main course. Almost every man who has solely focused on women for his validation and happiness has come to really regret it. Sure there are successful marriages but they are so few and far between now, it's like betting on a horse that's a 500-1 shot to win. Not a wise investment.

Chase greatness, not women.

 

[Gamisch]

This is what I keep saying. Way too many men are hung up on the idea of being in an LTR. This by itself gives off and energy of desperation. Why? Because you won't encounter that many women, and when you do you'll be all over her.

Just keep leveling up, work on your character and left and right women will be DRAWN to you.

Whatever happens she needs to feel like its her idea. F buddies? Her idea. LTR? Her idea. Marriage? Yup, her idea .

 

[BaronOfHair]

Did it got worse or better over time?

Tribalism has experienced a drastic upsurge over the past decade, which in turn has made relations between EVERYONE unusually strained. The world we have today might as well be be a different planet from. Where we were at recently as '14, when both sides of the proverbial aisle were fretting over the young being "entirely too individualistic" https://reason.com/2014/03/23/in-defense-of-millennials-and-individual/ Not coincidentally, Feminism was also widely considered antiquated by the general public in those not-too-distant-days

Compare that to the past decade, where refusing to declare our preferred pronouns or/and regulalry remind everyone in earshot of how Red Pill we are is now considered heresy

 

[Bible_Belt]

Perhaps you are only seeing one side of the coin, and the full story is that nowadays many people are not ltr material.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Women have stopped trusting men to act like men and be leaders worth following since so many no longer are.

So yes, it's harder to find one because they are less trusting of men's worthiness to commit to and rightly so.

It cuts both ways.

 

[plumber]

It depends on what race you dating. Everybody got touched one way or another by this multicultural bs elites are pushing onto us. Thing has gotten progressively worst since 2010. But some races got touched much less.

Least touched is the jewish race. So date some jews and report back.

Inclusivity Through Conversion: Unlike a biological race, anyone from any background can become Jewish by converting. Once a person converts according to Jewish law, they are fully considered a part of the Jewish people.

 

[sevbucmash]

Inclusivity Through Conversion: Unlike a biological race, anyone from any background can become Jewish by converting. Once a person converts according to Jewish law, they are fully considered a part of the Jewish people.

Nah. Ever noticed jews have big noses? That's because they only merry jewish women. Jewish is not a religion, it is a race. You can not convert and become jewish. They have a term for such people, gonef, somebody untrustworthy. Plenty of Russian jews face this same problem, they are jews by religion, but they are not khazar, they are slavic with slavic features. Racism takes over, not fully accepted. Many people think it's a religion, but no, it's genetics.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Thus, jews have the best odds, with their khazar Kiev-Volga-Don-Derbent roots and fake claim of semetic relationship. They are turkic people, which happen to control the most powerful financial institutions and the media, and you can thank them for your inability to find relationship material.

Jews have been blamed for many things but I had no idea that they were also responsible for "inability to find relationship material"

 

[zekko]

Anyway, worst would be white people. White Europeans, white Americans. Birth rate is historic low. Bellow 1 child per family, closer to 0.6.

You're right about the birth rate, but I would say worst affected has been black people. Have you seen the stats on fatherless homes?
Asians do well, their divorce rate is low, and have a very family-minded culture. Probably why they are the most successful race in the US statistically. Keeping the family together is the greatest predictor of financial success.

 

[Bingo-Player]

Old world expectations meeting New world reality

Women have realised the majority of men they come across will bend over backwards for pretty pu$$y and because of that female behaviour on the whole has been declining rapidly because of it.

Swipe apps have played a massive role in giving women too much choice which again leads to generally awful behaviours in the dating market

Just this morning I was out having coffee this couple was sitting within ear shot she basically spent 30 mins telling him how she hates his family , his haircut , basically how he was a useless piece of sh1t

The dude was just sitting there nodding and smiling at her " yes dear , sorry dear"

Women of course are not entirely to blame

Men have spent the last 20-30 years becoming very placid and simpy also the male sex obsession has likely gone absolutely out of control in the last 20 years

Only fans and only fans model culture has been driven by men .......DESPERATE NEEDY MEN

The broader picture is a total mess but if you just focus on your own dating market and a strategy within it

there are still plenty of opportunities to be had

 

[OngBak]

Perhaps you are only seeing one side of the coin, and the full story is that nowadays many people are not ltr material.

Women have stopped trusting men to act like men and be leaders worth following since so many no longer are.

So yes, it's harder to find one because they are less trusting of men's worthiness to commit to and rightly so.

It cuts both ways.

There's definitely some truth to it. If men these days actually acted like real men hit the gym, did things that leveled them up — women wouldn't be so distrustful of men. But that's on them too, it comes down to their choices. When I was doing my degrees, most of the guys I knew either drank, smoked, or didn't work out, so I'll give you that. BUT here's the thing: if women had never chosen those guys in the first place, if they had actually punished that type of behavior, those guys wouldn't exist as a category. Women hold enormous power in this, and their choices have a massive impact they can literally shape what society looks like. They choose whom to reproduce with and Collective reward + punishment is very strong.

And guess what? I wasn't initially seen as a leader by either men or women in academia, precisely because I work out and look like the kind of guy who gets a lot of girls. That happened every single time, abroad and locally, across my entire international experience. Why? Because of the stereotypes they carry around in their heads. In one case, people lost their shvt when they found out I was ex-McKinsey with a strong network across big companies at management level, I was the only one who stood out. But most of the girls still played games, despite the social proof, the strong network, the high income, the outgoing fun lifestyle, the top-10 passport, the fitness, the higher intellect, the education from top global universities, the multiple languages. I didn't hold a big sign with hey look at me, im the best guy in the world, those qualities were naturally discovered, keep that also in mind.

Instead, they tried some psychological warfare on me. A few of them out of pure jealousy and envy. They didn't want the unattractive dudes around them to figure out that these were actually the qualities they found attractive, because they don't want them to level up. My social proof was through the roof, so they couldnt run the BS all the time, otherwise they would be excluded.

The biological clock doesn't hit women the way it used to. They don't work out, they eat like ****, they **** around with all the wrong types of guys, and a lot of them manipulate men into believing that unattractive traits are actually attractive. I've seen this play out every single time. There's a segment of women who actively punish leadership qualities, they'd rather see those qualities in some fat nice guy just to humble you rather than in a handsome man who leveled up nearly every desirable trait in his life.

 

[Solomon]

OP, I'm a senior member of the board and have dated in every decade going back to the 80s. I'm not going to preach and reminisce about the "old times" but up until about 15 years ago, it was easy to meet women organically. Sure there was online dating, and it was a pain in the a$s then too, but it was no where near the level of bulls*it guys have to deal with now. Not even close. People actually tried in relationships and women weren't nearly as delusional, low quality, and b*tchy as they are now.

So to answer your question OP, yes, it's much, much tougher now to date women and almost impossible to find one worth investing in.

My advice: Focus on YOU and build the best life you can, and do it solo. Focus on health, wealth, education, social circle, hobbies, and interests. Invest your money -- this is huge. Go as far as you can with what you've got. A woman will only slow you down and become your #1 critic--seriously. Women can be a fun little side dish on your plate of food in life but NEVER, EVER make them the main course. Almost every man who has solely focused on women for his validation and happiness has come to really regret it. Sure there are successful marriages but they are so few and far between now, it's like betting on a horse that's a 500-1 shot to win. Not a wise investment.

Chase greatness, not women.

Old world expectations meeting New world reality

Women have realised the majority of men they come across will bend over backwards for pretty pu$$y and because of that female behaviour on the whole has been declining rapidly because of it.

Swipe apps have played a massive role in giving women too much choice which again leads to generally awful behaviours in the dating market

Just this morning I was out having coffee this couple was sitting within ear shot she basically spent 30 mins telling him how she hates his family , his haircut , basically how he was a useless piece of sh1t

The dude was just sitting there nodding and smiling at her " yes dear , sorry dear"

Women of course are not entirely to blame

Men have spent the last 20-30 years becoming very placid and simpy also the male sex obsession has likely gone absolutely out of control in the last 20 years

Only fans and only fans model culture has been driven by men .......DESPERATE NEEDY MEN

The broader picture is a total mess but if you just focus on your own dating market and a strategy within it

there are still plenty of opportunities to be had

These basically capture what has been going on in the last 15-20 years. The quality of women has dropped of a cliff; however, men have done themselves no favors either.

I remember joining the forum in 2008 if a guy was whining about his lack of success with women, he would damn near get bullied haha. Now you have men whining on social media like x and facebook. There is nothing more cringey than that.

 

[blonde30]

Women have way to many options and lineups in their prime now thanks to the internet where having hordes of men of any type is at their beck and command. Want to just date bad boys or chads for their first 5-8 of their best years. Too easy. Just go online and look for the best looking ones and who they automatically know are going to be nothing but chaos and drama. After they get bored or want a new one. Either go online or go out or check their socials and at the flick of a switch. There it is. Now on the other hand. This has consequences and it shows later on. men have caught on to this type of behavior as it’s not common for a beautiful or sexy girls to be single for long so when 30 rolls up and they are ready to just settle or settle down. Those same types of women get mad because they can’t figure out why nobody is banging on the door unless it’s for one night stands. Sure if a girl had been married for those 7-10 years and her husband cheated on her or left her for someone else. Then I’d be more inclined to be interested. But the rest. No way. They are damaged goods. Finding girls like that past 27-28 are not worth your time. They’ve done the circuit. They aren’t a catch by any means. Relationships with those type of girls are disasters waiting to happen. That’s why the vast majority of women these days are not relationship material. They grew up on “your young and have fun”.