"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is it just about "getting" a girl? How about "keeping" a girl?

Bible_Belt

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advice on how to keep a girl during difficult times

It is mostly maintaining mystery, not showing your cards, and not confessing feelings. I have no interest in being a woman's "friend." I give her plenty of space and she can seek the company of her friends to meet all of her emotional needs, except romance and sex. I limit my time around her to romantic and sexy activities only. I dole my time and attention out carefully, so that when she does get to see me, she is focusing on her sexual needs first, so we usually end up jumping straight into bed.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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^ ^ No offense but that's a pathetic type of relationship IMO


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Cod3r said:
^ ^ No offense but that's a pathetic type of relationship IMO


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Probably because that isn't a relationship... its a fvck-buddy.

At least that's what it sounds like.
 

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Demon said:
It would still be a relationship with another person. It would simply be another type of relationship.
Don't get technical... every person on earth has a relationship with every other person on earth, if you really wanna break it down.

You know that I meant a bf/gf relationship.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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