“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is it just about "getting" a girl? How about "keeping" a girl?

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advice on how to keep a girl during difficult times

It is mostly maintaining mystery, not showing your cards, and not confessing feelings. I have no interest in being a woman's "friend." I give her plenty of space and she can seek the company of her friends to meet all of her emotional needs, except romance and sex. I limit my time around her to romantic and sexy activities only. I dole my time and attention out carefully, so that when she does get to see me, she is focusing on her sexual needs first, so we usually end up jumping straight into bed.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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^ ^ No offense but that's a pathetic type of relationship IMO


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Cod3r said:
^ ^ No offense but that's a pathetic type of relationship IMO


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Probably because that isn't a relationship... its a fvck-buddy.

At least that's what it sounds like.
 

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Demon said:
It would still be a relationship with another person. It would simply be another type of relationship.
Don't get technical... every person on earth has a relationship with every other person on earth, if you really wanna break it down.

You know that I meant a bf/gf relationship.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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