"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is it just about "getting" a girl? How about "keeping" a girl?

Bible_Belt

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advice on how to keep a girl during difficult times

It is mostly maintaining mystery, not showing your cards, and not confessing feelings. I have no interest in being a woman's "friend." I give her plenty of space and she can seek the company of her friends to meet all of her emotional needs, except romance and sex. I limit my time around her to romantic and sexy activities only. I dole my time and attention out carefully, so that when she does get to see me, she is focusing on her sexual needs first, so we usually end up jumping straight into bed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Cod3r

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^ ^ No offense but that's a pathetic type of relationship IMO


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Cod3r said:
^ ^ No offense but that's a pathetic type of relationship IMO


-COd3r
Probably because that isn't a relationship... its a fvck-buddy.

At least that's what it sounds like.
 

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Demon said:
It would still be a relationship with another person. It would simply be another type of relationship.
Don't get technical... every person on earth has a relationship with every other person on earth, if you really wanna break it down.

You know that I meant a bf/gf relationship.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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