Dhoulmagus
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Most people can't
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
is it good when a girl can't tell if you are serious or joking
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Mike32ct
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Textbook David D stuff says yes, but I disagree. I say no. I think if people don't know you're joking, you are doing it wrong. I never understood the whole "messing with people and making them wonder if you are serious or joking."
Between_The_Lines
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In my experience, if the girl is attracted to you, treading down this path has the potential to shoot her attraction levels to an absolute zenith (funny enough, no matter how incomprehensible you actually may be to them, their attraction toward you will help them rationalize it in their brains that they "get you"), and if attraction levels are low it can easily get her to write you off as a jerk/@sshole. If this is the way you typically are, if you feel comfortable with the whole push-pull approach, then I say roll with it all the way until you come across a girl who "gets it".
sylvester the cat
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If a girl likes you she will find you funny.
Dhoulmagus
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It's the way I am, what doooBetween_The_Lines said:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.