"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is it ever worth messing with chicks who have initial average IL?

Infern0

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say they have IL of 6?

Is it worth it to even mess with that?

Granted it is possible to increase that number, but it's hard work.

Is it not better to just find a girl who has IL of 8 or above, who won't **** test you, flake, etc etc etc

Has anyone on here has sustained, consistant success with girls who were not initially that attracted to you?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Lozboss

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Infern0 said:
say they have IL of 6?

Is it worth it to even mess with that?

Granted it is possible to increase that number, but it's hard work.

Is it not better to just find a girl who has IL of 8 or above, who won't **** test you, flake, etc etc etc

Has anyone on here has sustained, consistant success with girls who were not initially that attracted to you?
On Tinder most girls only have an IL around 6. You have to work to hook them. Some will be hooked- others won't.

It's always worth finding high IL plates but I sometimes feel that practising holding your frame and working on improving IL doesn't hurt you.

I'd agree that it certainly shouldn't be your norm.
 

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if you are willing to put in the work knowing that it may fall through, yes. if you have the motivation to keep trying, yes. not every girl is going to love you right away. you deem if the girl is worthy. every situation will be different. don't take our word for it, OP!
 

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I'm starting to believe you can change the initial interest level quite a bit if you just met them online and never in person. They don't have much to go on, so if you do it right you can take an average to below average IL to a high IL but in the same way if you do it wrong, you can take a high IL to an average or below average IL just as easily...
 
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