“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is it ever worth messing with chicks who have initial average IL?

Infern0

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say they have IL of 6?

Is it worth it to even mess with that?

Granted it is possible to increase that number, but it's hard work.

Is it not better to just find a girl who has IL of 8 or above, who won't **** test you, flake, etc etc etc

Has anyone on here has sustained, consistant success with girls who were not initially that attracted to you?
 

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Infern0 said:
say they have IL of 6?

Is it worth it to even mess with that?

Granted it is possible to increase that number, but it's hard work.

Is it not better to just find a girl who has IL of 8 or above, who won't **** test you, flake, etc etc etc

Has anyone on here has sustained, consistant success with girls who were not initially that attracted to you?
On Tinder most girls only have an IL around 6. You have to work to hook them. Some will be hooked- others won't.

It's always worth finding high IL plates but I sometimes feel that practising holding your frame and working on improving IL doesn't hurt you.

I'd agree that it certainly shouldn't be your norm.
 

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if you are willing to put in the work knowing that it may fall through, yes. if you have the motivation to keep trying, yes. not every girl is going to love you right away. you deem if the girl is worthy. every situation will be different. don't take our word for it, OP!
 

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I'm starting to believe you can change the initial interest level quite a bit if you just met them online and never in person. They don't have much to go on, so if you do it right you can take an average to below average IL to a high IL but in the same way if you do it wrong, you can take a high IL to an average or below average IL just as easily...
 
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