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thats the trick... i mean they're really nothing special... just keep that in mind and its really not too difficult...Originally posted by knight56
I know what you mean. Think of them as ugly or act if there not all that. I think that is where the fear comes in most men.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
What I like to do is visualize them in a position of weakness before I approach if I feel intimidated, that helps too. Imagine them being made fun of and just taking it since they don't know how to handle it. Imagine her calling herself an idiot or a loser because she said something stupid and regrets it. Imagine her watching TV all day on her day off, accomplishing nothing. And realize this has all happened to her, and will probably happen again and again throughout her life. That helps just as much as imagining her as ugly (which she would be with 50 lbs and some facial scars)Originally posted by harwell
thats the trick... i mean they're really nothing special... just keep that in mind and its really not too difficult...