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thats the trick... i mean they're really nothing special... just keep that in mind and its really not too difficult...Originally posted by knight56
I know what you mean. Think of them as ugly or act if there not all that. I think that is where the fear comes in most men.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
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What I like to do is visualize them in a position of weakness before I approach if I feel intimidated, that helps too. Imagine them being made fun of and just taking it since they don't know how to handle it. Imagine her calling herself an idiot or a loser because she said something stupid and regrets it. Imagine her watching TV all day on her day off, accomplishing nothing. And realize this has all happened to her, and will probably happen again and again throughout her life. That helps just as much as imagining her as ugly (which she would be with 50 lbs and some facial scars)Originally posted by harwell
thats the trick... i mean they're really nothing special... just keep that in mind and its really not too difficult...