"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is It Easier To See Whether A Girl Likes You Through Text Than In Real Life?

Dark Horse

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Do you think it's easier to see whether a girl likes you through text or through interacting with her in real life?

As iv'e been getting more experience talking to girls, I find that it's actually easier to determine if a girl likes me back through text rather than talking in real life. Let me explain...

When you're communicating with someone via text, it's a lot easier to opt out of a conversation. If you want to get away from someone, you can simply just stop responding back. And it's a lot easier to ignore someone's texts or even respond with yes and no answers.

Through text, you can determine if someone is interested pretty quick. If they're willing to talk to you, responding even when you're not asking a question, and even asking you questions, then that's a good sign.

But in real life, you can't just randomly walk away and ignore someone if they ask you a question. A lot of women will talk to you and be friendly with you just to be polite when in reality, they're not at all attracted to you.


Not to mention that through text, you're only judging someone by the words they say. But in real life, you have to judge someone by the words they say in addition to their body language and facial expressions. So in a way, it's actually easier to get a scope on their level of interest through text.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Von

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Do you think it's easier to see whether a girl likes you through text or through interacting with her in real life?

As iv'e been getting more experience talking to girls, I find that it's actually easier to determine if a girl likes me back through text rather than talking in real life. Let me explain...

When you're communicating with someone via text, it's a lot easier to opt out of a conversation. If you want to get away from someone, you can simply just stop responding back. And it's a lot easier to ignore someone's texts or even respond with yes and no answers.

Through text, you can determine if someone is interested pretty quick. If they're willing to talk to you, responding even when you're not asking a question, and even asking you questions, then that's a good sign.

But in real life, you can't just randomly walk away and ignore someone if they ask you a question. A lot of women will talk to you and be friendly with you just to be polite when in reality, they're not at all attracted to you.


Not to mention that through text, you're only judging someone by the words they say. But in real life, you have to judge someone by the words they say in addition to their body language and facial expressions. So in a way, it's actually easier to get a scope on their level of interest through text.
You need to go out on dates.

Texting is just to set a date.

Interest is judged by how much / how many times of her body aka physical self you will see
 

hockeyfreak79

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BJs is probably the most accurate gauge and you can't get 1 through text. That would be a neat trick tho, who the fück knows the way technology is going these days. Introducing the new iPhone 100s with BJ technology.

I don't even care for them all that much, but that is the ultimate gauge in all LTRs. At least in the 1s I've been in.
 

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When you text you get to be a keyboard warriors. In person is the only way to go
 

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Text if you want... but sooner or later you have to be alone with a chick if anything is going to happen. I prefer to skip all the footsie play and texting and get right to the point and try to get her alone. Reading a chicks body language is a lot easier than trying to figure out the meaning of words on a smart-phone screen.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I sometimes ignore texts from my best friends of 10 years because I am busy


Keep that in mind
 

lizardking82

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It doesn't matter if you get her to meet through texting or you ask out on the streets or you meet her somewhere. It doesn't matter. Important to know is you have to be ready to handle the situation in person in all aspects. People go out and then everything shows. If your texting "game" was good but you're only good behind the keyboard/touchscreen, it will show in person. On the other hand, when you're just good and relaxed guy, the manner doesn't matter at all and you get to choose the one that you're the most comfortable with.
 
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