"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is It Easier To See Whether A Girl Likes You Through Text Than In Real Life?

Dark Horse

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Do you think it's easier to see whether a girl likes you through text or through interacting with her in real life?

As iv'e been getting more experience talking to girls, I find that it's actually easier to determine if a girl likes me back through text rather than talking in real life. Let me explain...

When you're communicating with someone via text, it's a lot easier to opt out of a conversation. If you want to get away from someone, you can simply just stop responding back. And it's a lot easier to ignore someone's texts or even respond with yes and no answers.

Through text, you can determine if someone is interested pretty quick. If they're willing to talk to you, responding even when you're not asking a question, and even asking you questions, then that's a good sign.

But in real life, you can't just randomly walk away and ignore someone if they ask you a question. A lot of women will talk to you and be friendly with you just to be polite when in reality, they're not at all attracted to you.


Not to mention that through text, you're only judging someone by the words they say. But in real life, you have to judge someone by the words they say in addition to their body language and facial expressions. So in a way, it's actually easier to get a scope on their level of interest through text.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Von

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Do you think it's easier to see whether a girl likes you through text or through interacting with her in real life?

As iv'e been getting more experience talking to girls, I find that it's actually easier to determine if a girl likes me back through text rather than talking in real life. Let me explain...

When you're communicating with someone via text, it's a lot easier to opt out of a conversation. If you want to get away from someone, you can simply just stop responding back. And it's a lot easier to ignore someone's texts or even respond with yes and no answers.

Through text, you can determine if someone is interested pretty quick. If they're willing to talk to you, responding even when you're not asking a question, and even asking you questions, then that's a good sign.

But in real life, you can't just randomly walk away and ignore someone if they ask you a question. A lot of women will talk to you and be friendly with you just to be polite when in reality, they're not at all attracted to you.


Not to mention that through text, you're only judging someone by the words they say. But in real life, you have to judge someone by the words they say in addition to their body language and facial expressions. So in a way, it's actually easier to get a scope on their level of interest through text.
You need to go out on dates.

Texting is just to set a date.

Interest is judged by how much / how many times of her body aka physical self you will see
 

hockeyfreak79

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BJs is probably the most accurate gauge and you can't get 1 through text. That would be a neat trick tho, who the fück knows the way technology is going these days. Introducing the new iPhone 100s with BJ technology.

I don't even care for them all that much, but that is the ultimate gauge in all LTRs. At least in the 1s I've been in.
 

sazc

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When you text you get to be a keyboard warriors. In person is the only way to go
 

RangerMIke

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Text if you want... but sooner or later you have to be alone with a chick if anything is going to happen. I prefer to skip all the footsie play and texting and get right to the point and try to get her alone. Reading a chicks body language is a lot easier than trying to figure out the meaning of words on a smart-phone screen.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bigdave17

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I sometimes ignore texts from my best friends of 10 years because I am busy


Keep that in mind
 

lizardking82

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It doesn't matter if you get her to meet through texting or you ask out on the streets or you meet her somewhere. It doesn't matter. Important to know is you have to be ready to handle the situation in person in all aspects. People go out and then everything shows. If your texting "game" was good but you're only good behind the keyboard/touchscreen, it will show in person. On the other hand, when you're just good and relaxed guy, the manner doesn't matter at all and you get to choose the one that you're the most comfortable with.
 
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