Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
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Then she has the nerve to call my friend insecure for getting mad about all this. It’s basically hanging out with the intention of cheating.
Yep, and it’s probably all his fault… rotflmao
Always 2 sides to everything. But it is what it is at this point.
Completely agree. She’s trying to get herself a little life raft. Everything’s easier said than done. I’m planning on sending these to him.
if she has a tangible legitimate reason (business colleague? study partner? group project together? drug dealer?) then no it's not cheating
look, you can justify it by saying it is a "legitimate" reason but there's no reason to be alone with a member of the opposite sex, especially over at your house. "Study buddy?" Meet at the library. Business meeting? Meet at the office. F*ck buddy? Yep, better to meet at your house. Look, no excuses for having a male "friend" over at your house unless you wish for something physical to happen.
that part was mostly devil's advocate for use in the cases where the girl is trustworthy enough to deserve the benefit of the doubt
No, sorry, not going to agree with you here. I find out my girl had another guy over at her house, there is no explaining that justifies that. Zombie apocalypse is going on outside? Too f*cking bad, you can't stay. How many excuses do you think she'd accept if she found out he had some chicks over to his place for some "drinks"?
(note: this post is meant to address whether or not it's reasonably possible for her to have had a guy over in a benign way)
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I'm not going to say that things don't happen and strange circumstances don't come up. But that is not the norm. We don't have full disclosure from the OP to be fair but my take away on it is that she's asking or they're talking about a semi-regular occurrence. Every once in a great while when strange circumstances come up? Explainable, understandable maybe, depends on what exactly happened. A regular occurrence? No, those are dates. Whether or not something happened that specific time, doesn't matter. She has guy "friends" coming over on a regular basis to "hang" out, sooner or later, one of them is taking her to pound town.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
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