Is it considered cheating when

[devilkingx2]

I'm not going to say that things don't happen and strange circumstances don't come up. But that is not the norm. We don't have full disclosure from the OP to be fair but my take away on it is that she's asking or they're talking about a semi-regular occurrence. Every once in a great while when strange circumstances come up? Explainable, understandable maybe, depends on what exactly happened. A regular occurrence? No, those are dates. Whether or not something happened that specific time, doesn't matter. She has guy "friends" coming over on a regular basis to "hang" out, sooner or later, one of them is taking her to pound town.

Then we can totally agree here 100%. If your girlfriend feels the need to constantly be meeting new friends at her house or for drinks she's 100% dating other guys

The only point of contention for me was that i think the girl deserves a fair chance to provide a reasonable explanation if at all possible ("those are my cousins i don't see often, they came to visit me, [shows you proof that they're related]")

in this case there is definitely not one, but unless your gf is a master manipulator who is good at pulling the wool over your eyes, no harm in letting her try and give a half decent reason.

I wouldn't wanna dump a girl for two-timing on me then find out her parents hired a private tutor or that a few of her guy friends have been helping to plan my birthday surprise lol.

 

[djthiago1]

What if the guy was bringing a "friend" over, hahahahaha just to "talk", what would women say? What's good for the goose isn't good for the gander it seems hahaha

Better yet, i'd ask the girl to try and kiss the guy, if he declines she can have him over every time she wants, if he goes for the kiss, she can never see him again. That'd get her head spinning.

God i love women.

 

[jaymbrs]

I'm not going to say that things don't happen and strange circumstances don't come up. But that is not the norm. We don't have full disclosure from the OP to be fair but my take away on it is that she's asking or they're talking about a semi-regular occurrence. Every once in a great while when strange circumstances come up? Explainable, understandable maybe, depends on what exactly happened. A regular occurrence? No, those are dates. Whether or not something happened that specific time, doesn't matter. She has guy "friends" coming over on a regular basis to "hang" out, sooner or later, one of them is taking her to pound town.

It’s under the category of “can I not have male friends??”

 

[highSpeed]

It’s under the category of “can I not have male friends??”

lol, yep, male "friends." if you're going to have male "friends" over all the time, what the hell do you need a significant other for? truth be told, be honest, if she's dating and wants to be friends with benefits, then tell him. if she doesn't, she'd know that putting yourself in that type of compromising situation, whether or not there's anything going on is a bad look. imagine her or him, hey they're late calling, I wonder what's going on? there's no answer when I call, I wonder what's going on? friends of the opposite sex simply don't work for LTRs, plain and simple. way, way, way too easy for the doubts to creep in.