Is it better to be a PU or a DJ? I say DJ.
I saw this site and I don't like it:
http://www.playboylifestyle.net/phpBB2/index.php
I saw this site and I don't like it:
http://www.playboylifestyle.net/phpBB2/index.php
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Is it better to be a PU or a DJ?
- Thread starter napoleon
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
squirrels
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Why are you asking us this question?
This is YOURS to answer. If you have to ask us which is "better", then you're NEITHER.
Do what you want.
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Playboy style? Don Juan style? Baller style? LoL... such thought patterns would make for one hell of a action romance flick... preferrably done by chineese actors with bad voice dubbing...
I can see it now, three guys at a bar contemplating the meaning of life and who has the better pick up style.
Guy1: My playboy style is better than bawler style and don juan style...(laughs like a mad man)
Guy2: No...you both are in error
Guy3: Fools! No one can beat Don Juan style.
Hot woman walks into bar...
All three guys are mesmerised by her and they look at eachother...they realise now is the perfect time to test their pick up styles...
Guy1 walks up, gives playboy style, the woman smiles but he comes back looking rejected...Guy2 walks up, gives baller style, the woman laughs but he too comes back looking rejected...Guy3 walks up with no hint of desperation, the woman seems at ease and Guy3 comes back smiling from ear to ear...Guy3 got the number close...
And what's the moral of this story you may wonder? Don't bet against the home team...
I can see it now, three guys at a bar contemplating the meaning of life and who has the better pick up style.
Guy1: My playboy style is better than bawler style and don juan style...(laughs like a mad man)
Guy2: No...you both are in error
Guy3: Fools! No one can beat Don Juan style.
Hot woman walks into bar...
All three guys are mesmerised by her and they look at eachother...they realise now is the perfect time to test their pick up styles...
Guy1 walks up, gives playboy style, the woman smiles but he comes back looking rejected...Guy2 walks up, gives baller style, the woman laughs but he too comes back looking rejected...Guy3 walks up with no hint of desperation, the woman seems at ease and Guy3 comes back smiling from ear to ear...Guy3 got the number close...
And what's the moral of this story you may wonder? Don't bet against the home team...
Hurri
Don Juan
it's a bit biased asking in this forum. The basics of DJ and PU are the exactly the same, it then branchs out to different styles and methods. Both will get you laid, whatever works.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I'm not asking you for your approval. I'm just saying that I think that being a DJ is better because it's much deeper than PU. DJs are the alpha ,they're not trying to look like that just to get girls. PUA act ****y to get girls and DJs are just being themselves. A PU who can't get a girl is miserable and a DJ doesn't give a **** (they can't get a girl because they're maybe on a deserted island).