Is it better to be a PU or a DJ? I say DJ.
I saw this site and I don't like it:
http://www.playboylifestyle.net/phpBB2/index.php
I saw this site and I don't like it:
http://www.playboylifestyle.net/phpBB2/index.php
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Is it better to be a PU or a DJ?
- Thread starter napoleon
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
squirrels
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Why are you asking us this question?
This is YOURS to answer. If you have to ask us which is "better", then you're NEITHER.
Do what you want.
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Playboy style? Don Juan style? Baller style? LoL... such thought patterns would make for one hell of a action romance flick... preferrably done by chineese actors with bad voice dubbing...
I can see it now, three guys at a bar contemplating the meaning of life and who has the better pick up style.
Guy1: My playboy style is better than bawler style and don juan style...(laughs like a mad man)
Guy2: No...you both are in error
Guy3: Fools! No one can beat Don Juan style.
Hot woman walks into bar...
All three guys are mesmerised by her and they look at eachother...they realise now is the perfect time to test their pick up styles...
Guy1 walks up, gives playboy style, the woman smiles but he comes back looking rejected...Guy2 walks up, gives baller style, the woman laughs but he too comes back looking rejected...Guy3 walks up with no hint of desperation, the woman seems at ease and Guy3 comes back smiling from ear to ear...Guy3 got the number close...
And what's the moral of this story you may wonder? Don't bet against the home team...
I can see it now, three guys at a bar contemplating the meaning of life and who has the better pick up style.
Guy1: My playboy style is better than bawler style and don juan style...(laughs like a mad man)
Guy2: No...you both are in error
Guy3: Fools! No one can beat Don Juan style.
Hot woman walks into bar...
All three guys are mesmerised by her and they look at eachother...they realise now is the perfect time to test their pick up styles...
Guy1 walks up, gives playboy style, the woman smiles but he comes back looking rejected...Guy2 walks up, gives baller style, the woman laughs but he too comes back looking rejected...Guy3 walks up with no hint of desperation, the woman seems at ease and Guy3 comes back smiling from ear to ear...Guy3 got the number close...
And what's the moral of this story you may wonder? Don't bet against the home team...
Hurri
Don Juan
it's a bit biased asking in this forum. The basics of DJ and PU are the exactly the same, it then branchs out to different styles and methods. Both will get you laid, whatever works.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'm not asking you for your approval. I'm just saying that I think that being a DJ is better because it's much deeper than PU. DJs are the alpha ,they're not trying to look like that just to get girls. PUA act ****y to get girls and DJs are just being themselves. A PU who can't get a girl is miserable and a DJ doesn't give a **** (they can't get a girl because they're maybe on a deserted island).