Is it better to be a PU or a DJ? I say DJ.
I saw this site and I don't like it:
http://www.playboylifestyle.net/phpBB2/index.php
I saw this site and I don't like it:
http://www.playboylifestyle.net/phpBB2/index.php
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Is it better to be a PU or a DJ?
- Thread starter napoleon
- Start date
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
squirrels
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 15, 2003
- Messages
- 6,620
- Reaction score
- 186
- Age
- 47
Why are you asking us this question?
This is YOURS to answer. If you have to ask us which is "better", then you're NEITHER.
Do what you want.
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Playboy style? Don Juan style? Baller style? LoL... such thought patterns would make for one hell of a action romance flick... preferrably done by chineese actors with bad voice dubbing...
I can see it now, three guys at a bar contemplating the meaning of life and who has the better pick up style.
Guy1: My playboy style is better than bawler style and don juan style...(laughs like a mad man)
Guy2: No...you both are in error
Guy3: Fools! No one can beat Don Juan style.
Hot woman walks into bar...
All three guys are mesmerised by her and they look at eachother...they realise now is the perfect time to test their pick up styles...
Guy1 walks up, gives playboy style, the woman smiles but he comes back looking rejected...Guy2 walks up, gives baller style, the woman laughs but he too comes back looking rejected...Guy3 walks up with no hint of desperation, the woman seems at ease and Guy3 comes back smiling from ear to ear...Guy3 got the number close...
And what's the moral of this story you may wonder? Don't bet against the home team...
I can see it now, three guys at a bar contemplating the meaning of life and who has the better pick up style.
Guy1: My playboy style is better than bawler style and don juan style...(laughs like a mad man)
Guy2: No...you both are in error
Guy3: Fools! No one can beat Don Juan style.
Hot woman walks into bar...
All three guys are mesmerised by her and they look at eachother...they realise now is the perfect time to test their pick up styles...
Guy1 walks up, gives playboy style, the woman smiles but he comes back looking rejected...Guy2 walks up, gives baller style, the woman laughs but he too comes back looking rejected...Guy3 walks up with no hint of desperation, the woman seems at ease and Guy3 comes back smiling from ear to ear...Guy3 got the number close...
And what's the moral of this story you may wonder? Don't bet against the home team...
Hurri
Don Juan
it's a bit biased asking in this forum. The basics of DJ and PU are the exactly the same, it then branchs out to different styles and methods. Both will get you laid, whatever works.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm not asking you for your approval. I'm just saying that I think that being a DJ is better because it's much deeper than PU. DJs are the alpha ,they're not trying to look like that just to get girls. PUA act ****y to get girls and DJs are just being themselves. A PU who can't get a girl is miserable and a DJ doesn't give a **** (they can't get a girl because they're maybe on a deserted island).