Is it better for a woman to hate you than be "fond" of you?

[Siragoos]

We all know women are emotional creatures. I'm wondering if, in terms of attraction, it's better for a woman to hate you than be "fond" of you or mildly like you.

 

[Jair213]

hate is a strong word. no sane woman will find it better to hate you than to like you in terms of attraction.

leave that to the crazy's and bpd bishes!

 

[DarkDetective50]

Depends. Hate can generate attraction in a sick way. Being fond of you means friend zone. No two ways about it. Typically, if she "hates" you, it might mean you don't give a f**k about her feelings or bend over so easily to her will.

 

[Siragoos]

Typically, if she "hates" you, it might mean you don't give a f**k about her feelings or bend over so easily to her will.

This is more what I meant by hate. Not actual hate.

 

[SeymourCake]

That's preposterous. Women do not hate Don Juans!:box: :box: :box: :box: :box:

 

[Dgwizdal]

I have a love/hate relationship with all the girls I'm involved with - it allows me to do and say whatever I want and they still want my c*ck. The greatest thing is being able to have them say "I hate you" and then they grab my face with glossed over eyes and shove their tongue down my throat. Being a slick smartass = Gina tingles.

As far as genuine hate without being repulsed by you or feel pitty for you - I would say that it's far better than friendzoned as far as attraction goes especially if you are indifferent to it. It is situational. Ideally - f*cking your girlfriends best friend after you just broke up because she realized you dont give a f*ck about her would be a positive hate. Chasing a girl until she can't stand you would be the opposite spectrum.

 

[Derfel]

When she doesn't find you attractive she will do anything to stay away from you.
Emotion is still emotion and has a certain amount of invest into that person.

Start by not taking BS from people and your perception of the world changes.

Patrice: "I want my woman to be only mad at me. No one else."

 

[Mr Wright]

Hate = Emotional investment = Chance of passion = Probability of fvcking

Fond of = Sweet but kinda meh = No fvcking


Simple as that.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Its not about love or hate.. its about value. For women its always been about value. This is why women are materialistic and like status. They view the entire world in terms of value, image and status.. NOT quality. Remember that. Quality doesn't matter to women.. value does.

What is value to women? --> Popularity, price, image, demand, novelty.

Women don't chase what is best for THEM. They chase what is considered most valuable and high status within their social group or the social group they WANT to identify with. For instance a "thug" is high status to a woman who wants to look like a "bad girl" or "tough" even if she isn't.

Women also chase men who can improve their lives in some way. If a woman doesn't have money for instance.. a man can make up for that (food, protection, a bed to sleep in, etc.).

Women will compromise sexual attraction for stability as they age and lose their own sexual attractiveness. This is why they f*ck alphas and marry betas. But they all want to have a certain image and lifestyle. They will go with the man who can best provide this.

The part many men miss is how to leverage sex into it. If you can improve a woman's life or image without her having to sleep with you.... then she usually won't sleep with you. You become a landlord that doesn't charge rent. This leads to friend zoning because only a truly desperate or stupid landlord would not charge rent. If she can live in a penthouse for free and show off to her friends, plus she knows you'll never kick her out.. why start paying rent? :crazy:

Once you threaten to kick her out.. she might pay rent.. but if another sucker offers a similar deal.. why bother? Just move into his penthouse for FREE and pay for nice hotels every once in a while (sex with alphas).

This is why you should spin plates. It immediately gives a woman the opportunity to chase a man who "many women want". This gives the man instant status and value. Not quality however. But like I said women don't care about quality. Most men are not aware of this. They try to be "quality men" to attract women not realizing women are looking for VALUE/STATUS not quality.

This is why a man should live whatever life he wants to live while spinning plates. Be quality for yourself.. not to get women. Just spin plates and let the women around you create your "value".

Spin plates goddammit!

 

[Siragoos]

The part many men miss is how to leverage sex into it. If you can improve a woman's life or image without her having to sleep with you.... then she usually won't sleep with you. You become a landlord that doesn't charge rent. This leads to friend zoning because only a truly desperate or stupid landlord would not charge rent. If she can live in a penthouse for free and show off to her friends, plus she knows you'll never kick her out.. why start paying rent? :crazy:

This is why I tell women who have BFs adios. It's just easier to kick them out right away than give the validation they want because usually they see there's no reason for them to give you sex to get what they want if their man is giving it to them regularly.