"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Is it better for a woman to hate you than be "fond" of you?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Jair213
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leave that to the crazy's and bpd bishes!
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dgwizdal
Master Don Juan
As far as genuine hate without being repulsed by you or feel pitty for you - I would say that it's far better than friendzoned as far as attraction goes especially if you are indifferent to it. It is situational. Ideally - f*cking your girlfriends best friend after you just broke up because she realized you dont give a f*ck about her would be a positive hate. Chasing a girl until she can't stand you would be the opposite spectrum.
Emotion is still emotion and has a certain amount of invest into that person.
Start by not taking BS from people and your perception of the world changes.
Patrice: "I want my woman to be only mad at me. No one else."
Mr Wright
Master Don Juan
Fond of = Sweet but kinda meh = No fvcking
Simple as that.
PlayHer Man
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What is value to women? --> Popularity, price, image, demand, novelty.
Women don't chase what is best for THEM. They chase what is considered most valuable and high status within their social group or the social group they WANT to identify with. For instance a "thug" is high status to a woman who wants to look like a "bad girl" or "tough" even if she isn't.
Women also chase men who can improve their lives in some way. If a woman doesn't have money for instance.. a man can make up for that (food, protection, a bed to sleep in, etc.).
Women will compromise sexual attraction for stability as they age and lose their own sexual attractiveness. This is why they f*ck alphas and marry betas. But they all want to have a certain image and lifestyle. They will go with the man who can best provide this.
The part many men miss is how to leverage sex into it. If you can improve a woman's life or image without her having to sleep with you.... then she usually won't sleep with you. You become a landlord that doesn't charge rent. This leads to friend zoning because only a truly desperate or stupid landlord would not charge rent. If she can live in a penthouse for free and show off to her friends, plus she knows you'll never kick her out.. why start paying rent? :crazy:
Once you threaten to kick her out.. she might pay rent.. but if another sucker offers a similar deal.. why bother? Just move into his penthouse for FREE and pay for nice hotels every once in a while (sex with alphas).
This is why you should spin plates. It immediately gives a woman the opportunity to chase a man who "many women want". This gives the man instant status and value. Not quality however. But like I said women don't care about quality. Most men are not aware of this. They try to be "quality men" to attract women not realizing women are looking for VALUE/STATUS not quality.
This is why a man should live whatever life he wants to live while spinning plates. Be quality for yourself.. not to get women. Just spin plates and let the women around you create your "value".
Spin plates goddammit!
This is why I tell women who have BFs adios. It's just easier to kick them out right away than give the validation they want because usually they see there's no reason for them to give you sex to get what they want if their man is giving it to them regularly.PlayHer Man said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.