"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
is it bad to tell girls you fuk other girls?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
However the best way to deal with these inquistions is with humor.
She asks," Did you have sex with Jane last night ?"
You, " Yep, right after I left Jessica's place, and just before I got to Mary's house."
Girls love competition and if you are seeing plenty of girls you have less of a care with each particular one which in turn gets them more attracted to you.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It's good for a girl you're reasonably interested in to at least get the idea that you *might* be fvcking other girls, but don't tell them. And if they ask, I usually give a response somewhat like jophil's, i.e. playing it off. Same goes if a girl asks you how many girls you've slept with (i.e. "what, today you mean?")
If you potentially want to take it further with a girl, just consider (and I know some people disagree..). . . what possible good will come out of telling her something like that? From my experience, it's only caused problems down the road.