"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
is it bad to tell girls you fuk other girls?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
However the best way to deal with these inquistions is with humor.
She asks," Did you have sex with Jane last night ?"
You, " Yep, right after I left Jessica's place, and just before I got to Mary's house."
Girls love competition and if you are seeing plenty of girls you have less of a care with each particular one which in turn gets them more attracted to you.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's good for a girl you're reasonably interested in to at least get the idea that you *might* be fvcking other girls, but don't tell them. And if they ask, I usually give a response somewhat like jophil's, i.e. playing it off. Same goes if a girl asks you how many girls you've slept with (i.e. "what, today you mean?")
If you potentially want to take it further with a girl, just consider (and I know some people disagree..). . . what possible good will come out of telling her something like that? From my experience, it's only caused problems down the road.