Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
is it bad to tell girls you fuk other girls?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
However the best way to deal with these inquistions is with humor.
She asks," Did you have sex with Jane last night ?"
You, " Yep, right after I left Jessica's place, and just before I got to Mary's house."
Girls love competition and if you are seeing plenty of girls you have less of a care with each particular one which in turn gets them more attracted to you.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It's good for a girl you're reasonably interested in to at least get the idea that you *might* be fvcking other girls, but don't tell them. And if they ask, I usually give a response somewhat like jophil's, i.e. playing it off. Same goes if a girl asks you how many girls you've slept with (i.e. "what, today you mean?")
If you potentially want to take it further with a girl, just consider (and I know some people disagree..). . . what possible good will come out of telling her something like that? From my experience, it's only caused problems down the road.