"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is it bad to show a lot of interest in the beginning?

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oldmanofthesea said:
You shouldn't care so much about meeting this girl. You should focus on meeting many women. If this girl shows up, then great, introduce yourself. But the more you have to plot and scheme to try to meet her, the more it shows you don't have an abundance mindset and will come off as needy to her even if you aren't consciously aware of it. A true DJ can take it or leave it, especially a girl you haven't even met yet.... too much time and thought into someone you have no idea about. She could be a total dud, so why all the plotting and scheming?
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The "sniper" approach with the babes does not work well at all.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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billtx49 said:
So let me get my mind clear on this, you’re doing all this mental masturbation about a girl you’ve never been in the same room or location with?
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Yeah I really tend to overthink this stuff lol
 
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