You shouldn't care so much about meeting this girl. You should focus on meeting many women. If this girl shows up, then great, introduce yourself. But the more you have to plot and scheme to try to meet her, the more it shows you don't have an abundance mindset and will come off as needy to her even if you aren't consciously aware of it. A true DJ can take it or leave it, especially a girl you haven't even met yet.... too much time and thought into someone you have no idea about. She could be a total dud, so why all the plotting and scheming?