"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is it bad to show a lot of interest in the beginning?

mrgoodstuff

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You shouldn't care so much about meeting this girl. You should focus on meeting many women. If this girl shows up, then great, introduce yourself. But the more you have to plot and scheme to try to meet her, the more it shows you don't have an abundance mindset and will come off as needy to her even if you aren't consciously aware of it. A true DJ can take it or leave it, especially a girl you haven't even met yet.... too much time and thought into someone you have no idea about. She could be a total dud, so why all the plotting and scheming?
The "sniper" approach with the babes does not work well at all.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nicksaiz65

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So let me get my mind clear on this, you’re doing all this mental masturbation about a girl you’ve never been in the same room or location with?
Yeah I really tend to overthink this stuff lol
 
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