"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is it bad to show a lot of interest in the beginning?

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oldmanofthesea said:
You shouldn't care so much about meeting this girl. You should focus on meeting many women. If this girl shows up, then great, introduce yourself. But the more you have to plot and scheme to try to meet her, the more it shows you don't have an abundance mindset and will come off as needy to her even if you aren't consciously aware of it. A true DJ can take it or leave it, especially a girl you haven't even met yet.... too much time and thought into someone you have no idea about. She could be a total dud, so why all the plotting and scheming?
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The "sniper" approach with the babes does not work well at all.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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billtx49 said:
So let me get my mind clear on this, you’re doing all this mental masturbation about a girl you’ve never been in the same room or location with?
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Yeah I really tend to overthink this stuff lol
 
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