"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is it bad that I don't mind just jerking off to porno?

ChillDude6767

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I've had lots of sex in the past. To me, right now, it seems preferable to stay home and jerk off than to go out to the biggest club and try to get the hottest girl.

I guess this is normal, right?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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RickTheToad

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I've had lots of sex in the past. To me, right now, it seems preferable to stay home and jerk off than to go out to the biggest club and try to get the hottest girl.

I guess this is normal, right?
Not really. However, masturbation is healthy. Are you depressed? Only men who do that are typically incels, MGTOWs and depressed men. If you are the later, the masturbation will only intestivify your depression. Best to focus on yourself and become a better version of it. Exercise, eat right, do sh!t, do ladies... Ultimately, have fun.
 

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I've stopped. We're both in our 30's, this is the time when erections start to waver a little

Sex and drive is better without it & I'm not wasting anymore time/energy finishing all over myself
 
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