"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is it bad that I don't mind just jerking off to porno?

ChillDude6767

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I've had lots of sex in the past. To me, right now, it seems preferable to stay home and jerk off than to go out to the biggest club and try to get the hottest girl.

I guess this is normal, right?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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RickTheToad

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I've had lots of sex in the past. To me, right now, it seems preferable to stay home and jerk off than to go out to the biggest club and try to get the hottest girl.

I guess this is normal, right?
Not really. However, masturbation is healthy. Are you depressed? Only men who do that are typically incels, MGTOWs and depressed men. If you are the later, the masturbation will only intestivify your depression. Best to focus on yourself and become a better version of it. Exercise, eat right, do sh!t, do ladies... Ultimately, have fun.
 

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I've stopped. We're both in our 30's, this is the time when erections start to waver a little

Sex and drive is better without it & I'm not wasting anymore time/energy finishing all over myself
 
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