"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh for fvcks sake, THERE IS NO UNIFORM LEGAL AGE IN AMERICA. Where do you people get this idea? Look at the US Constitution and see if that's a power the federal government has .... nope.
Well what we see as legal is the youngest age you can f*ck a girl without being put in jail for it. If she's 18 she's not a minor, so it's "legal" to have sex with her. If she's 17, she's a minor and therefore it's illegal to have sex with her. So yes, I guess you could really say there is a uniform legal age. In some US states 16 is legal, but in most states, it's 18.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ElStud said:
If she's 17, she's a minor and therefore it's illegal to have sex with her.
Check your facts - you are wrong and you're spreading false info. I hate to seem harsh but people like you are part of the misinformation problem - if you're not sure say "I think" or "I heard" or something to let other suckers know you've not verified your "facts". Please.

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Free hint: Age of Consent and Age of Majority are not always equal. Have a look.
 

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Alright, holier than thou, you're always right, is that what you want to hear? Well too bad. You're basically telling you could have sex with a 3 year old and it wouldn't be against the law. Try again.

And I have checked my facts, look here.

http://teenadvice.about.com/library/weekly/qanda/blageofconsentchart.htm

The "age of consent" in most states is somewhere between 16-18.
 

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Not holier, just right and you're wrong. No big thing unless your ego can't stand it. Like I said, look it up, there ARE State laws, they DO vary, and none say 3 is legal.
 

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I've said what I had to say. Age of Consent is usually between 16-18 in all states. There might be a few exceptions, but it's mostly 16-18. And ooh, now your following laws huh? I thought the federal government didn't have that power Mr. Contradictory. And no matter what the age of consent is, if you just wait till the girl is 18, no matter what state you're in, it's always going to be legal, unless you're like a lesbian or something. For instance, living in Ohio, I could have sex right now seeing as the age of consent is 16.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ElStud said:
.... now your following laws huh? I thought the federal government didn't have that power Mr. Contradictory .....
I see I seriously overestimated you when I assumed you were of slightly below average intelligence. State laws are not a sign of federal authority. Read it slowly if you don't get it the first few times.

To answer the other question yes, of course I believe in obeying laws, I just don't make sh1t up and then pretend it's true if I can avoid it.
 

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I see I seriously overestimated you when I assumed you were of slightly below average intelligence. State laws are not a sign of federal authority. Read it slowly if you don't get it the first few times.

To answer the other question yes, of course I believe in obeying laws, I just don't make sh1t up and then pretend it's true if I can avoid it.
Wow, you're still talking. But yeah, I'm done. I've got no interest in arguing with you anymore.
 

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Wow, you're still talking. But yeah, I'm done. I've got no interest in arguing with you anymore.
That is a sign of a trooper waving the white flag of surrender.
 

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This is really stupid.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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