"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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is it a hint?

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hello i posted back in december about this girl that lives on my street and we got into a big argument and we hated each other all year.

well we made up, i think. we apologized. i got a message from her one day asking if i wanted to hang out with her. so i call ed her that day and she was busy, so i told her id call tommorow. so i did and we made plans. but she call ed a little while after and said she had to do something with her dad, but i think she had otherplans.

so then i called her a couple days after and said i was doing something with some friends and told her id call her tommorow, cause agian she said she had no plans. so i messaged her on myspace asking her if it would be weird hanging out with these 2 other guys she barely knew, then she sent one back saying she had a doctors appointment at 2 and she was doing something else after that.

i feel like shes blowing me off, but i still want tohang out with her agian, but i dont know if i should call her.

anything helps. thank you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sounds like this girl is a flaker, she is blowing you off. You definitely shouldn't have called her so many times. Sounded desperate on your part. My advice is blow HER off...make no contact with her for the next...well, as long as it takes. If she asks you again about hanging out or why you haven't called her...just tell her that she blew you off. She has to make it up now. Make her call you.
 
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what if if i tell her that i havnt called cause she blew me off, and she says she didnt? she'll probably say that.
 
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ValleyDJing said:
Sounds like this girl is a flaker, she is blowing you off. You definitely shouldn't have called her so many times. Sounded desperate on your part. My advice is blow HER off...make no contact with her for the next...well, as long as it takes. If she asks you again about hanging out or why you haven't called her...just tell her that she blew you off. She has to make it up now. Make her call you.
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i agree and if she denies ditching you just act as if its not a big deal she ended up chasing you anyway.
 
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okay so i was driving up my street with a friend yesterday and she saw me and waved. so i called her and she didnt pick up her cell phone. but we went to asnother friends house and she called me back like a half hour later and we talked for like 2 minutes, but she told me to call her back later. does this mean i should just forget about it or what?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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dont ever say that you WILL call her...drop a maybe in there. firstly it doesnt lock u in and secondly you wont seem desperate.
 
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SHe sounds just like my ex. Making plans then cancelling them. Although try not to call a girl many times, cause like stated above. It shows desperation
 
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Next. tsk tsk tsk.
 
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