"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is Hollywood objectifying teenage women for the benefit of older men?

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I was reading this article about a chick named Taylor Momsen

http://newsbusters.org/blogs/brent-bozell/2010/12/18/bozell-column-exploiting-teen-temptress

First off, she might be 17, but she's smoking, so maybe the author has a point. :yes: (NOTE: do a search for her videos on YouTube.)

But it does being up an interesting social question. The fact is that I would much rather see sexually suggestive barely legal acting very suggestively then the cougars on "Desperate Housewives", even though society says that I should only get sexual excitement from women my own age.

It seems to me that the young virgin maiden is basically the only desired sexual object for all societies, except for socially advanced" societies of the West, in which almost the opposite seems to be true - i.e., that an older man desiring such a virgin maiden is looked upon as a shamed, perverted loser. Perhaps there is a great desire in the male population for entertainment that portrays such young maidens as sexually available for older men, which is why this chick is popular. I suppose porno would also qualify, but that lays bare any notion that the woman is still a virgin.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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And just last night I was watching "To Catch a Predator".

Unfortunately, I'm in the camp that doesn't feel attracted to most women over 35 nor women under 21. Or wait, is that fortunately?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sam, your treading close to the line. You know the line that is the truth and then people start calling you names. If there were more chics on this forum you would have been branded for those statements. Let me just say this, my daughter watches nick and disney channel and some of those girls on there look and dress like grown women (and some of them are played by grown women which also blurs the line). I usually just leave the room or try not to pay attention to it.
 
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