"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is Hollywood objectifying teenage women for the benefit of older men?

MatureDJ

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I was reading this article about a chick named Taylor Momsen

http://newsbusters.org/blogs/brent-bozell/2010/12/18/bozell-column-exploiting-teen-temptress

First off, she might be 17, but she's smoking, so maybe the author has a point. :yes: (NOTE: do a search for her videos on YouTube.)

But it does being up an interesting social question. The fact is that I would much rather see sexually suggestive barely legal acting very suggestively then the cougars on "Desperate Housewives", even though society says that I should only get sexual excitement from women my own age.

It seems to me that the young virgin maiden is basically the only desired sexual object for all societies, except for socially advanced" societies of the West, in which almost the opposite seems to be true - i.e., that an older man desiring such a virgin maiden is looked upon as a shamed, perverted loser. Perhaps there is a great desire in the male population for entertainment that portrays such young maidens as sexually available for older men, which is why this chick is popular. I suppose porno would also qualify, but that lays bare any notion that the woman is still a virgin.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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And just last night I was watching "To Catch a Predator".

Unfortunately, I'm in the camp that doesn't feel attracted to most women over 35 nor women under 21. Or wait, is that fortunately?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Sam, your treading close to the line. You know the line that is the truth and then people start calling you names. If there were more chics on this forum you would have been branded for those statements. Let me just say this, my daughter watches nick and disney channel and some of those girls on there look and dress like grown women (and some of them are played by grown women which also blurs the line). I usually just leave the room or try not to pay attention to it.
 
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