Poop1337 said:You just tell us what area you live in and if you're cute. Then we'll have some one from the forum private message you so you can get some one on one coaching.
You can begin by posting a pic OP
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Poop1337 said:You just tell us what area you live in and if you're cute. Then we'll have some one from the forum private message you so you can get some one on one coaching.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I posted a pic of myself. Now hopefully I will get more serious answers haha.Rave18 said:![]()
You can begin by posting a pic OP
No it is lol! I mean the other ones who were kinda joking and acting immature, but a lot of you guys gave me good advice! I appreciate your input!wishyo said:i thought case is solved...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So he told you that he liked you and you didn't reciprocate and then he disappeared. Why would he possibly do that? Sounds like a real mystery.xxJuliexx said:It's just a lot of drama, but one of them was the fact that he kept pulling disappearing acts on me, and then he would reappear in my life and act like he's my boyfriend and act like he is so in love with me, and declared his love for me, then I wouldn't reciprocate and then he would disappear and I wouldn't hear from him from weeks to months at a time.
Lol, no thank you. Glad you enjoy the pic, hahahahaha. I am just an average gal, nothing special.Poop1337 said:Aw you put up a pic for us to enjoy. We still need to know what area of the country you're in so we can send over your own personal dating coach. He'll bring you through concepts like escalation.
I know, I didn't reciprocate. I just don't know why he's playing games. He's being immature. But it still hurts, cause it's his antics why I resisted otherwise I wouldn't haveBokanovsky said:So he told you that he liked you and you didn't reciprocate and then he disappeared. Why would he possibly do that? Sounds like a real mystery.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What does that mean? Lol.Vulpine said:GFTOW
Yeah I agree....it's just hard to take in cause I have such an attraction to him. I care a lot about him, so for him to not like me, hurts a lot. Thank you!Rival said:Julie it seems like he just not that interested in you. If a guy was he wouldn't play games to this degree/for this long. Maybe he would try this if he thought you were a long shot to date or something but it seems he knows you like him.
Me myself, I'd say piss on him
Is that a real picture of you on your home profile page?xxJuliexx said:Yeah I agree....it's just hard to take in cause I have such an attraction to him. I care a lot about him, so for him to not like me, hurts a lot. Thank you!
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
No it hurts your ego that he rejected you. I'm sure you cause this drama, because women love drama.I am forcing myself to let go, cause I really do care about him.