Poop1337 said:You just tell us what area you live in and if you're cute. Then we'll have some one from the forum private message you so you can get some one on one coaching.
You can begin by posting a pic OP
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Poop1337 said:You just tell us what area you live in and if you're cute. Then we'll have some one from the forum private message you so you can get some one on one coaching.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I posted a pic of myself. Now hopefully I will get more serious answers haha.Rave18 said:![]()
You can begin by posting a pic OP
No it is lol! I mean the other ones who were kinda joking and acting immature, but a lot of you guys gave me good advice! I appreciate your input!wishyo said:i thought case is solved...
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
So he told you that he liked you and you didn't reciprocate and then he disappeared. Why would he possibly do that? Sounds like a real mystery.xxJuliexx said:It's just a lot of drama, but one of them was the fact that he kept pulling disappearing acts on me, and then he would reappear in my life and act like he's my boyfriend and act like he is so in love with me, and declared his love for me, then I wouldn't reciprocate and then he would disappear and I wouldn't hear from him from weeks to months at a time.
Lol, no thank you. Glad you enjoy the pic, hahahahaha. I am just an average gal, nothing special.Poop1337 said:Aw you put up a pic for us to enjoy. We still need to know what area of the country you're in so we can send over your own personal dating coach. He'll bring you through concepts like escalation.
I know, I didn't reciprocate. I just don't know why he's playing games. He's being immature. But it still hurts, cause it's his antics why I resisted otherwise I wouldn't haveBokanovsky said:So he told you that he liked you and you didn't reciprocate and then he disappeared. Why would he possibly do that? Sounds like a real mystery.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What does that mean? Lol.Vulpine said:GFTOW
Yeah I agree....it's just hard to take in cause I have such an attraction to him. I care a lot about him, so for him to not like me, hurts a lot. Thank you!Rival said:Julie it seems like he just not that interested in you. If a guy was he wouldn't play games to this degree/for this long. Maybe he would try this if he thought you were a long shot to date or something but it seems he knows you like him.
Me myself, I'd say piss on him
Is that a real picture of you on your home profile page?xxJuliexx said:Yeah I agree....it's just hard to take in cause I have such an attraction to him. I care a lot about him, so for him to not like me, hurts a lot. Thank you!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No it hurts your ego that he rejected you. I'm sure you cause this drama, because women love drama.I am forcing myself to let go, cause I really do care about him.