Poop1337 said:You just tell us what area you live in and if you're cute. Then we'll have some one from the forum private message you so you can get some one on one coaching.
You can begin by posting a pic OP
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Poop1337 said:You just tell us what area you live in and if you're cute. Then we'll have some one from the forum private message you so you can get some one on one coaching.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I posted a pic of myself. Now hopefully I will get more serious answers haha.Rave18 said:![]()
You can begin by posting a pic OP
No it is lol! I mean the other ones who were kinda joking and acting immature, but a lot of you guys gave me good advice! I appreciate your input!wishyo said:i thought case is solved...
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
So he told you that he liked you and you didn't reciprocate and then he disappeared. Why would he possibly do that? Sounds like a real mystery.xxJuliexx said:It's just a lot of drama, but one of them was the fact that he kept pulling disappearing acts on me, and then he would reappear in my life and act like he's my boyfriend and act like he is so in love with me, and declared his love for me, then I wouldn't reciprocate and then he would disappear and I wouldn't hear from him from weeks to months at a time.
Lol, no thank you. Glad you enjoy the pic, hahahahaha. I am just an average gal, nothing special.Poop1337 said:Aw you put up a pic for us to enjoy. We still need to know what area of the country you're in so we can send over your own personal dating coach. He'll bring you through concepts like escalation.
I know, I didn't reciprocate. I just don't know why he's playing games. He's being immature. But it still hurts, cause it's his antics why I resisted otherwise I wouldn't haveBokanovsky said:So he told you that he liked you and you didn't reciprocate and then he disappeared. Why would he possibly do that? Sounds like a real mystery.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What does that mean? Lol.Vulpine said:GFTOW
Yeah I agree....it's just hard to take in cause I have such an attraction to him. I care a lot about him, so for him to not like me, hurts a lot. Thank you!Rival said:Julie it seems like he just not that interested in you. If a guy was he wouldn't play games to this degree/for this long. Maybe he would try this if he thought you were a long shot to date or something but it seems he knows you like him.
Me myself, I'd say piss on him
Is that a real picture of you on your home profile page?xxJuliexx said:Yeah I agree....it's just hard to take in cause I have such an attraction to him. I care a lot about him, so for him to not like me, hurts a lot. Thank you!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
No it hurts your ego that he rejected you. I'm sure you cause this drama, because women love drama.I am forcing myself to let go, cause I really do care about him.