"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Is he joking? Serious? Or is it just innocent flirtation?

SharinganUser

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you're thinking about this way to much. You're not Ross and Rachael. Why don't you just do whatever it is you women do to attract men, and use it on him???

Whatever you do, have fun and relax. On that note, invite him over for some wine and a homecooked meal. Offer him a massage. You know what he likes so if you like him, just do what he likes.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bible_Belt said:
Backbreaker was right. Your friend is what we call an "AFC," the acronym for 'average frustrated chump.' His situation is common. He likes you, but does not know what to do about it. The only way to get him to have some nerve is to force the issue, but as a woman, is that really what you want? It's a catch-22, sure you might want him now, but by the time you have to take all that initiative, it will erode whatever attraction you have to him.
According to her hes been in other relationships so he had to have made a move on other girls. That said he might not be as big of an AFC as you guys think...

I say you should get tipsy one time with him and just go for the kiss, if he accepts give him the best night of his life and you should be good :)
 

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Bloke said:
Pics, or STFU.
Agreed, if you make quotes like that I want proof before I'll help you, if it's true, you can ask me anything and I'll answer in the best way I can :cool:

I won't help you if it's not true, cause I hate people who lie
 
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