"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Is he joking? Serious? Or is it just innocent flirtation?

SharinganUser

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you're thinking about this way to much. You're not Ross and Rachael. Why don't you just do whatever it is you women do to attract men, and use it on him???

Whatever you do, have fun and relax. On that note, invite him over for some wine and a homecooked meal. Offer him a massage. You know what he likes so if you like him, just do what he likes.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bible_Belt said:
Backbreaker was right. Your friend is what we call an "AFC," the acronym for 'average frustrated chump.' His situation is common. He likes you, but does not know what to do about it. The only way to get him to have some nerve is to force the issue, but as a woman, is that really what you want? It's a catch-22, sure you might want him now, but by the time you have to take all that initiative, it will erode whatever attraction you have to him.
According to her hes been in other relationships so he had to have made a move on other girls. That said he might not be as big of an AFC as you guys think...

I say you should get tipsy one time with him and just go for the kiss, if he accepts give him the best night of his life and you should be good :)
 

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Bloke said:
Pics, or STFU.
Agreed, if you make quotes like that I want proof before I'll help you, if it's true, you can ask me anything and I'll answer in the best way I can :cool:

I won't help you if it's not true, cause I hate people who lie
 
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