"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is he joking? Serious? Or is it just innocent flirtation?

SharinganUser

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you're thinking about this way to much. You're not Ross and Rachael. Why don't you just do whatever it is you women do to attract men, and use it on him???

Whatever you do, have fun and relax. On that note, invite him over for some wine and a homecooked meal. Offer him a massage. You know what he likes so if you like him, just do what he likes.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bible_Belt said:
Backbreaker was right. Your friend is what we call an "AFC," the acronym for 'average frustrated chump.' His situation is common. He likes you, but does not know what to do about it. The only way to get him to have some nerve is to force the issue, but as a woman, is that really what you want? It's a catch-22, sure you might want him now, but by the time you have to take all that initiative, it will erode whatever attraction you have to him.
According to her hes been in other relationships so he had to have made a move on other girls. That said he might not be as big of an AFC as you guys think...

I say you should get tipsy one time with him and just go for the kiss, if he accepts give him the best night of his life and you should be good :)
 

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Bloke said:
Pics, or STFU.
Agreed, if you make quotes like that I want proof before I'll help you, if it's true, you can ask me anything and I'll answer in the best way I can :cool:

I won't help you if it's not true, cause I hate people who lie
 
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