"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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blueangel83

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I would like some clarification on a guy that I am about to meet from online. I am wondering if he is serious about being with me or not.

I answered an LTR ad from a 27 year old Aries who works in Manhattan but lives in Brooklyn. Says he shares an apartment with his sister and still talks to his ex as friends. I initially did not believe him because obviously it's total BS! I mean, who would want to share an apartment with their female sibling?

Wouldn't he feel awkward bringing women home and screwing them in his bedroom knowing that his sister is in the other room? That's sick! He says he is only strictly friends with his ex but no one believes them. I don't believe him either because in my opinion, after a break-up, couples either hate each other or are still deeply in love.

He continues to email me. He emailed me one time saying he is looking for an LTR but NSA is also ok. I'm like WTF when did I say NSA?!?!?! :mad: So I emailed him back and said "Oh, I thought you were looking for an LTR?" he replied "Yes I am, but I only said that NSA is ok too".

This dude is seriously confusing me. I haven't had sex in like 3 months :down: because I'm still waiting for the right guy to do it with. He's a very good looking guy but I just don't want another NSA. I wanted an LTR because I miss loving and caring for someone and holding them.

If it doesn't work out with this guy (rubbish) I'll get back to that Burberry model, and this guy who's been emailling me daily about taking me to a very expensive restaurant (I'm not impressed) :rolleyes: and this other guy who I finally decided to meet after 5 months but flaked on me!!! I'm not sure if I should set up another date or not.

Kindly offer me your advice. Thank you.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Smooth Player 056

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Why dont u go to a chick board.....nobody wants you here, well except for Bradshaw...hes trying to internet game you... on a seduction board.

Were here to talk about GUY problems, not be spammed with your girl logic.

Ban Her!
 

johnmich

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Whats wrong with havin a chick on this forum? It can help a lot in my opinion.
I think it is because that lads post problems on here (some are funny / embarrssing/ whatever) and they are scared of what she will read on here.
I will never meet her so im not bothered, if she is giving advice from a females point of view then ok, whereas wot she posted in this thread is a bit iffy. I dont hink id ever go on a dating site or owt like that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by johnmich
Whats wrong with havin a chick on this forum? It can help a lot in my opinion.
I think it is because that lads post problems on here (some are funny / embarrssing/ whatever) and they are scared of what she will read on here.
I will never meet her so im not bothered, if she is giving advice from a females point of view then ok, whereas wot she posted in this thread is a bit iffy. I dont hink id ever go on a dating site or owt like that.
Wrong! Yeah alot of stories here are embarrassing/funny whatever, but why would anyone give a fvck if some random chick reads it?

Anyway the point is if this behaviour is condoned and encouraged then that will make way for more posts of a chick nature, which will lead to more having a snowball effect and YOU my silly friend will end up handing out chocolates and roses to a bunch of nameless skanks before you even reach your 19th birthday because of cause and effect.

Kapeesh?
 

MindOverMatter

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Whats wrong with havin a chick on this forum?
I don't mind the female posters on this site, some of them have opinions worth listening to. But I really don't see the point of one coming here for help on her dating life. This is a site for men to discuss game, not a place for girls to ask for help on their dating lives.

I could easily tell this girl that this guy isn't a player. Then again, I like to help guys get laid, and for all she knows, everything I said could be a lie. I could be telling her that sh!t because I want to help another player get some easy sex.

Like I said, she'd be better off asking her question at that Pink Bible website, which is a forum made by women, for women, for answering questions like this that I don't care to read about.

Peace.
 

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its not gonna stop her from reading them so who cares... just stop responding to her posts if you want her gone... if not... thjen whatever.. these things work themselves out naturally
 

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Re: Re: Is he a player?

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
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Wtf is this crap doing here? I could have sworn some douche said in another thread you were semi decent looking.... So unless your socially inept why the hell are you here?

Weve already got Wyldfire (another attention hor) siphoning all the attention she can out of this place. Ones enough, go check out that other website.
What about me? :)
 

Bradshaw

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Why dont u go to a chick board.....nobody wants you here, well except for Bradshaw...hes trying to internet game you... on a seduction board.

Were here to talk about GUY problems, not be spammed with your girl logic.

Ban Her!
Very Mature.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This is going no where
 
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