“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I would like some clarification on a guy that I am about to meet from online. I am wondering if he is serious about being with me or not.

I answered an LTR ad from a 27 year old Aries who works in Manhattan but lives in Brooklyn. Says he shares an apartment with his sister and still talks to his ex as friends. I initially did not believe him because obviously it's total BS! I mean, who would want to share an apartment with their female sibling?

Wouldn't he feel awkward bringing women home and screwing them in his bedroom knowing that his sister is in the other room? That's sick! He says he is only strictly friends with his ex but no one believes them. I don't believe him either because in my opinion, after a break-up, couples either hate each other or are still deeply in love.

He continues to email me. He emailed me one time saying he is looking for an LTR but NSA is also ok. I'm like WTF when did I say NSA?!?!?! :mad: So I emailed him back and said "Oh, I thought you were looking for an LTR?" he replied "Yes I am, but I only said that NSA is ok too".

This dude is seriously confusing me. I haven't had sex in like 3 months :down: because I'm still waiting for the right guy to do it with. He's a very good looking guy but I just don't want another NSA. I wanted an LTR because I miss loving and caring for someone and holding them.

If it doesn't work out with this guy (rubbish) I'll get back to that Burberry model, and this guy who's been emailling me daily about taking me to a very expensive restaurant (I'm not impressed) :rolleyes: and this other guy who I finally decided to meet after 5 months but flaked on me!!! I'm not sure if I should set up another date or not.

Kindly offer me your advice. Thank you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Why dont u go to a chick board.....nobody wants you here, well except for Bradshaw...hes trying to internet game you... on a seduction board.

Were here to talk about GUY problems, not be spammed with your girl logic.

Ban Her!
 
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Whats wrong with havin a chick on this forum? It can help a lot in my opinion.
I think it is because that lads post problems on here (some are funny / embarrssing/ whatever) and they are scared of what she will read on here.
I will never meet her so im not bothered, if she is giving advice from a females point of view then ok, whereas wot she posted in this thread is a bit iffy. I dont hink id ever go on a dating site or owt like that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by johnmich
Whats wrong with havin a chick on this forum? It can help a lot in my opinion.
I think it is because that lads post problems on here (some are funny / embarrssing/ whatever) and they are scared of what she will read on here.
I will never meet her so im not bothered, if she is giving advice from a females point of view then ok, whereas wot she posted in this thread is a bit iffy. I dont hink id ever go on a dating site or owt like that.
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Wrong! Yeah alot of stories here are embarrassing/funny whatever, but why would anyone give a fvck if some random chick reads it?

Anyway the point is if this behaviour is condoned and encouraged then that will make way for more posts of a chick nature, which will lead to more having a snowball effect and YOU my silly friend will end up handing out chocolates and roses to a bunch of nameless skanks before you even reach your 19th birthday because of cause and effect.

Kapeesh?
 
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Whats wrong with havin a chick on this forum?
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I don't mind the female posters on this site, some of them have opinions worth listening to. But I really don't see the point of one coming here for help on her dating life. This is a site for men to discuss game, not a place for girls to ask for help on their dating lives.

I could easily tell this girl that this guy isn't a player. Then again, I like to help guys get laid, and for all she knows, everything I said could be a lie. I could be telling her that sh!t because I want to help another player get some easy sex.

Like I said, she'd be better off asking her question at that Pink Bible website, which is a forum made by women, for women, for answering questions like this that I don't care to read about.

Peace.
 
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its not gonna stop her from reading them so who cares... just stop responding to her posts if you want her gone... if not... thjen whatever.. these things work themselves out naturally
 
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Re: Re: Is he a player?

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Wtf is this crap doing here? I could have sworn some douche said in another thread you were semi decent looking.... So unless your socially inept why the hell are you here?

Weve already got Wyldfire (another attention hor) siphoning all the attention she can out of this place. Ones enough, go check out that other website.
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What about me? :)
 
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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Why dont u go to a chick board.....nobody wants you here, well except for Bradshaw...hes trying to internet game you... on a seduction board.

Were here to talk about GUY problems, not be spammed with your girl logic.

Ban Her!
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Very Mature.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is going no where
 
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