"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Is he a player?

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blueangel83

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I would like some clarification on a guy that I am about to meet from online. I am wondering if he is serious about being with me or not.

I answered an LTR ad from a 27 year old Aries who works in Manhattan but lives in Brooklyn. Says he shares an apartment with his sister and still talks to his ex as friends. I initially did not believe him because obviously it's total BS! I mean, who would want to share an apartment with their female sibling?

Wouldn't he feel awkward bringing women home and screwing them in his bedroom knowing that his sister is in the other room? That's sick! He says he is only strictly friends with his ex but no one believes them. I don't believe him either because in my opinion, after a break-up, couples either hate each other or are still deeply in love.

He continues to email me. He emailed me one time saying he is looking for an LTR but NSA is also ok. I'm like WTF when did I say NSA?!?!?! :mad: So I emailed him back and said "Oh, I thought you were looking for an LTR?" he replied "Yes I am, but I only said that NSA is ok too".

This dude is seriously confusing me. I haven't had sex in like 3 months :down: because I'm still waiting for the right guy to do it with. He's a very good looking guy but I just don't want another NSA. I wanted an LTR because I miss loving and caring for someone and holding them.

If it doesn't work out with this guy (rubbish) I'll get back to that Burberry model, and this guy who's been emailling me daily about taking me to a very expensive restaurant (I'm not impressed) :rolleyes: and this other guy who I finally decided to meet after 5 months but flaked on me!!! I'm not sure if I should set up another date or not.

Kindly offer me your advice. Thank you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Smooth Player 056

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Why dont u go to a chick board.....nobody wants you here, well except for Bradshaw...hes trying to internet game you... on a seduction board.

Were here to talk about GUY problems, not be spammed with your girl logic.

Ban Her!
 

johnmich

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Whats wrong with havin a chick on this forum? It can help a lot in my opinion.
I think it is because that lads post problems on here (some are funny / embarrssing/ whatever) and they are scared of what she will read on here.
I will never meet her so im not bothered, if she is giving advice from a females point of view then ok, whereas wot she posted in this thread is a bit iffy. I dont hink id ever go on a dating site or owt like that.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by johnmich
Whats wrong with havin a chick on this forum? It can help a lot in my opinion.
I think it is because that lads post problems on here (some are funny / embarrssing/ whatever) and they are scared of what she will read on here.
I will never meet her so im not bothered, if she is giving advice from a females point of view then ok, whereas wot she posted in this thread is a bit iffy. I dont hink id ever go on a dating site or owt like that.
Wrong! Yeah alot of stories here are embarrassing/funny whatever, but why would anyone give a fvck if some random chick reads it?

Anyway the point is if this behaviour is condoned and encouraged then that will make way for more posts of a chick nature, which will lead to more having a snowball effect and YOU my silly friend will end up handing out chocolates and roses to a bunch of nameless skanks before you even reach your 19th birthday because of cause and effect.

Kapeesh?
 

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Whats wrong with havin a chick on this forum?
I don't mind the female posters on this site, some of them have opinions worth listening to. But I really don't see the point of one coming here for help on her dating life. This is a site for men to discuss game, not a place for girls to ask for help on their dating lives.

I could easily tell this girl that this guy isn't a player. Then again, I like to help guys get laid, and for all she knows, everything I said could be a lie. I could be telling her that sh!t because I want to help another player get some easy sex.

Like I said, she'd be better off asking her question at that Pink Bible website, which is a forum made by women, for women, for answering questions like this that I don't care to read about.

Peace.
 

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its not gonna stop her from reading them so who cares... just stop responding to her posts if you want her gone... if not... thjen whatever.. these things work themselves out naturally
 

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Re: Re: Is he a player?

Originally posted by ( . )( . )
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Wtf is this crap doing here? I could have sworn some douche said in another thread you were semi decent looking.... So unless your socially inept why the hell are you here?

Weve already got Wyldfire (another attention hor) siphoning all the attention she can out of this place. Ones enough, go check out that other website.
What about me? :)
 

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Originally posted by Smooth Player 056
Why dont u go to a chick board.....nobody wants you here, well except for Bradshaw...hes trying to internet game you... on a seduction board.

Were here to talk about GUY problems, not be spammed with your girl logic.

Ban Her!
Very Mature.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is going no where
 
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