New_Age_Prodigy
Don Juan
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Thoughts?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I vote the opposite. My facebook has actually helped me. I post pictures of myself doing funny or interesting things, my status updates are hilarious, and there's pictures of me with women on there. As long as you keep it mostly positive, there's nothing wrong with it.VladPatton said:My vote is: kill your facebook. Get rid of the snoopin, creepin, gossipin, 1-uppin, and attention whórin from your life. Nuttin but trouble.
+1Desdinova said:It really is what you make it out to be. If you see it as a place for your friends to post their boring day-to-day misery and mundane activities, then that's what it is. If you see it as a place to entertain your friends with interesting stuff you can think up, you'll become interesting to them.