"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Is Having A Facebook Page Anti-Challenge?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

New_Age_Prodigy

Don Juan
Joined
May 12, 2013
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
Has it, or has it not? I'm still kind of new to the forum, so I really have no idea if this has been discussed or not; just curious to see what others think.
 

PlayHer Man

Banned
Joined
Dec 22, 2012
Messages
1,695
Reaction score
190
Location
East Coast USA
No man should decide to have or not have a Facebook page based on what "women" think.
Such thinking makes you a beta faggot--> P*ssy whipped by faceless women you aren't even f*cking. How pathetic is that? :crackup: :crackup:

If you want a Facebook page then have one. If you don't then don't have one. A woman's opinion is irrelevant. Only your opinion matters. :up:
 

zinc4

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 17, 2007
Messages
3,044
Reaction score
1,425
the threads on here really suck a$$ lately
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

VladPatton

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2012
Messages
3,246
Reaction score
232
Location
NYC
My vote is: kill your facebook. Get rid of the snoopin, creepin, gossipin, 1-uppin, and attention whórin from your life. Nuttin but trouble.
 

Desdinova

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2004
Messages
11,681
Reaction score
4,878
VladPatton said:
My vote is: kill your facebook. Get rid of the snoopin, creepin, gossipin, 1-uppin, and attention whórin from your life. Nuttin but trouble.
I vote the opposite. My facebook has actually helped me. I post pictures of myself doing funny or interesting things, my status updates are hilarious, and there's pictures of me with women on there. As long as you keep it mostly positive, there's nothing wrong with it.

Here's some GOOD things that have happened with my FB page:

- I added a female from a new social circle I joined. She loves my FB page and talks about it with her friends when I'm absent. This equals value.

- More people send me friend requests (women included) because they've heard about my awesome FB page. In turn, THEY talk about my FB page in my absence.

- Friend's gf who I've barely spoken two words to initiates a conversation next time I see her. She admits to stalking my FB page and insists that I add her.

- Because of my interesting FB page, I have dated women who were my FB friends first.

It really is what you make it out to be. If you see it as a place for your friends to post their boring day-to-day misery and mundane activities, then that's what it is. If you see it as a place to entertain your friends with interesting stuff you can think up, you'll become interesting to them.
 

New_Age_Prodigy

Don Juan
Joined
May 12, 2013
Messages
14
Reaction score
0
Desdinova said:
It really is what you make it out to be. If you see it as a place for your friends to post their boring day-to-day misery and mundane activities, then that's what it is. If you see it as a place to entertain your friends with interesting stuff you can think up, you'll become interesting to them.
+1

Very well put.

I'm curious to see what the difference would be between trying to hook up with a chic on your friends list, compared to not having a FB altogether.

The reason I say this, is because if you are on your FB on a regular basis the chic can pretty much see what you are up to on a daily basis, which pretty much kills any mystery whatsoever. I suppose you could not add the chic to your friends list, but some people get extremely butt hurt over that sh!t.
 
Top