"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is Having A Facebook Page Anti-Challenge?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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New_Age_Prodigy

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Has it, or has it not? I'm still kind of new to the forum, so I really have no idea if this has been discussed or not; just curious to see what others think.
 

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No man should decide to have or not have a Facebook page based on what "women" think.
Such thinking makes you a beta faggot--> P*ssy whipped by faceless women you aren't even f*cking. How pathetic is that? :crackup: :crackup:

If you want a Facebook page then have one. If you don't then don't have one. A woman's opinion is irrelevant. Only your opinion matters. :up:
 

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the threads on here really suck a$$ lately
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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VladPatton

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My vote is: kill your facebook. Get rid of the snoopin, creepin, gossipin, 1-uppin, and attention whórin from your life. Nuttin but trouble.
 

Desdinova

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VladPatton said:
My vote is: kill your facebook. Get rid of the snoopin, creepin, gossipin, 1-uppin, and attention whórin from your life. Nuttin but trouble.
I vote the opposite. My facebook has actually helped me. I post pictures of myself doing funny or interesting things, my status updates are hilarious, and there's pictures of me with women on there. As long as you keep it mostly positive, there's nothing wrong with it.

Here's some GOOD things that have happened with my FB page:

- I added a female from a new social circle I joined. She loves my FB page and talks about it with her friends when I'm absent. This equals value.

- More people send me friend requests (women included) because they've heard about my awesome FB page. In turn, THEY talk about my FB page in my absence.

- Friend's gf who I've barely spoken two words to initiates a conversation next time I see her. She admits to stalking my FB page and insists that I add her.

- Because of my interesting FB page, I have dated women who were my FB friends first.

It really is what you make it out to be. If you see it as a place for your friends to post their boring day-to-day misery and mundane activities, then that's what it is. If you see it as a place to entertain your friends with interesting stuff you can think up, you'll become interesting to them.
 

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Desdinova said:
It really is what you make it out to be. If you see it as a place for your friends to post their boring day-to-day misery and mundane activities, then that's what it is. If you see it as a place to entertain your friends with interesting stuff you can think up, you'll become interesting to them.
+1

Very well put.

I'm curious to see what the difference would be between trying to hook up with a chic on your friends list, compared to not having a FB altogether.

The reason I say this, is because if you are on your FB on a regular basis the chic can pretty much see what you are up to on a daily basis, which pretty much kills any mystery whatsoever. I suppose you could not add the chic to your friends list, but some people get extremely butt hurt over that sh!t.
 
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